"Accept me for who I am." This is said everything. Working out, attitudes, style of dress, smoking, it just seems like an excuse not to address issues. For things you can't change (height, color, etc), that makes sense. But is this just a cop out mostly?

Sounds like you might have helped me write a few of my Facebook status updates concerning this very thing.

#1: To defend hurtful actions w/ "that's just the way I am" is a confession that your love of God is not yet BIG enough to change you.

#2: We were 'saved' from "that's just the way I am"... Jesus died so that we don't have to “be that way”. We are "new creatures" free to change our mind and change our life... unless we just choose to “be that way”.

#3: A Moment of Clarity :: "That's just the way I am" is a cop out. That's lazy, ignorant, and trifling talk for unbelievers. You are ultimately who you "choose" to be. Yeah, it may take some time and effort, but you can change your mind (and therefore your attitude) about anything. It's your birthright because the brain is designed that way. "As a man thinketh in his heart so is he." Prov 23:7
Thanks for stopping by fam.

=========================
To find my books or CDs please visit: http://www.BoSpeaks.com/
=========================

Steven “Bo” Beaudoin Jr.
Husband, Father, Friend, Mentor, Author, Speaker, Trainer, Professional Life/Relationship Coach, Entrepreneur, and Philanthropist. A champion of Christ centered clarity, motivation, and focus.

2M Communications ©2012 Copyright, Steven Beaudoin Jr. All Rights Reserved.

Ask me anything... Relationships, Faith, Marriage, Life, etc...